There’s a common trend these days. What is that, you might be asking? It’s the wrong assumption that a lady needs to ‘help’ herself when a guy isn’t forthcoming. This of course, leads to desperate measures.
Honesty hour: I experienced this when I was in UNI. So, happened that a certain big bros back then in Lag advised me that I should get some really cool clothes then start attending House on the Rock church on Sundays and Wednesdays 😂😂😂.
Me too, I will be all decked up, going to church with the wrong motive ‘find a boo’ 😩.
Omo, I went to church o, the church was big as the big bros had told me, it was a ‘celebrity church’ just like he had described as well, BUT I didn’t find a boo there 😂😂😂.
After sometime, I got tired of the ‘nonsense search’ and quickly fell in love with their worship ministrations – boy, they have one of the best choir groups in Lagos. Please quote me anywhere 😋.
And eventually, God started dealing with me on the need to return to my own church which I had abandoned because I was following that bros’ advise and actively searching for a boo in a fine church 😂😂😂.
Anyways, I went back to my ‘sweet’ church, time passed. I mean time passedddddddd 😩.
But eventually, God showed up without me doing the search and yeah, it’s true, God can do exceedingly and abundantly, far above all we could ever ask or think 😉.
What I am trying to say is : “Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the LORD”. (Proverbs 19:14) , and “he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22 ).
This means, it is “he” who finds not “she”.
So let me burst your little bubble – you cannot find your boo 😳. Yes. You were never meant to find him. You were meant to be found 👯.
So, please stop going to Coldstone and Silverbird cinemas for the wrong reasons 😂😂😂.
And oh yes, it’s okay to eat ice-cream and watch movies, but it’s definitely not okay for the motivating goal to be “on a mission to find a boo” 😩😩.
Instead, go and eat your ice-cream in peace, if you must . And look up to the hills instead. Because indeed, that is where your help will come from 👯.